Alexa Hess

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Alexa Hess is a staff writer for The Daily Grace Company. She lives in Seattle, Washington with her husband, Jake. She holds a M.A. in Ministry to Women from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary and has a deep love for encouraging women with God’s Word. She loves to eat brunch, explore new places with her husband, and be cozy with a good book.

Am I Supposed to Love Myself?

by Alexa Hess

When I was younger, I struggled immensely with low self-esteem. I hated my naturally curly hair and sought to cover up the coils with the heat of a hot iron. I berated myself for being too quiet. I compared myself with other girls and assumed there must be something wrong with me since I didn’t get boys’ attention as they did. …

Living in the Light

by Alexa Hess 

When most people think of the city of Seattle, they think of rain. This makes sense since the city has a consistent rainy season for several months. The weather of Seattle took some time for me to get used to when I first moved here, especially since we didn’t have an overhead light in our living room.…

A Prayer for Christmas

by Alexa Hess

While this prayer can be prayed individually, we encourage you to pray this prayer with a spouse, friend, or together as a family. 

O God, 

As we gather on this Eve of Christmas

anxiously awaiting for tomorrow to dawn,

we stop to consider the purpose of this season

While this holiday boasts of gifts made by hands,

we celebrate the ultimate Gift, Jesus

the best gift we could ever receive 

As we gaze upon the twinkling lights on houses,

or the ones strung upon our tree,

we remember that the Light of the World has come

Although our world is desperately broken— 

tainted by sin, sickness, conflict, and fear—

we rejoice that our Prince of Peace has come 

Almighty God, the birth of Your Son was Your plan

Promised to ancestors past, sustained by Your grace,

fulfilled by Your faithfulness alone

We praise You, we bless You, we glorify You

for giving us Jesus 

The true reason for this season

This world boasts in joy rooted in the perfect home

or the number of presents underneath the tree

We too can find ourselves consumed with these things

Often, we can find that our imagination has been captured

By what the world celebrates and desires this season

O God, humble our hearts

Often we can find ourselves jealous and discontent

Coveting the experiences or possessions of another 

O God, humble our hearts 

Keep us from being swayed by the consumerism of this season

Guard our minds from fixating on worldly gain

Help us focus on the purpose of Christmas

For this season is not about what we gain—

the perfect meal, the perfect house, or the perfect gift

This season is about Jesus 

So as we gather together, awaiting tomorrow’s day

Let us rejoice over the baby born in Bethlehem 

Come, let us adore Him 

He left His throne to dwell with us

Come, let us adore Him

He took on flesh to be like us

Come, let us adore Him

He healed the sick and forgave the sinner

Come, let us adore Him

He offered mercy and grace to those in fear

Come, let us adore Him

He remained sinless and obedient, a perfect spotless lamb

Come, let us adore Him

He took our punishment upon the cross

Come, let us adore Him

He rose again in victory

Come, let us adore Him

His wondrous light has broken through our darkness

Come, let us adore Him

Jesus, may we be humble as you were humble

for you did not come to serve but to be served, 

and did not come to gain but to give away

Jesus, may we love like you love

for you moved toward the broken and the hurting

and cared for those in need 

Help us remember the angels’ song of good news of great joy

Sung thousands of years ago, 

for the song of the gospel is greater than any carols we could sing 

Fill our hearts with this song this Christmas 

May it be on our minds as we awake in the morning

and on our lips throughout the day

Above all that we feel this good news this Christmas, 

May we feel gratitude for the salvation we have received

and joy over our relationship with You 

And when the day is done—

when all the gifts have been unwrapped, and we are tucked into our beds tight—

may we awake the next day with the joy of Christmas still in our hearts

For the message of this season isn’t for a season or for one day alone

The purpose of your coming Jesus, the salvation You would go on to achieve

is a message to remember every day of our lives

But for now, prepare our hearts for Christmas day

Fill us with your love, joy, and peace

Stir our affections for You 

We rejoice that You have come to us 

We rejoice that You will come to us again 


The Weary World Rejoices

by Alexa Hess

My husband and I had only been married three weeks when we made our trek across the country to settle in Seattle. We spent two weeks traveling only to discover that our POD full of belongings was delayed when we arrived.…

Two Promises in Our Pain

by Alexa Hess

The other day I was watching one of my favorite TV shows, chuckling at the events that were happening between two characters. One of the characters was in tears because they were going through a breakup. The other character saw their friend’s grief and was extremely uncomfortable.…